The Rules Of Conduct With Relatives

(Excerpted from Futuwat namah by Khwaja Husayn Wa’iz Kashifi Sabzawari An Naqshbandi Translated by M. Nur Abdussalam)

If asked: How many are the rules of conduct with relatives? Say: Seven:

1.      Adhere to them for the bonds of relationships extend life.
2.      Be charitable to them with your goods.
3.      Rejoice in their happiness and be sad when they sorrow.
4.      When aiding them, do not stint in the way of help.
5.      However much they may vex you, be loyal in return.
6.      Do not collude with their enemies.

Do not covet their property or reputation, for you will also become unchaste and disreputable.